Some of us are single moms others just feel like single moms, as they have hubby's but ja do they always help us ???????
Absenst dads ( they are there but only in body) can play a big role in any house hold, I just wish for my friends and all of you struggling with this problem that some of their hubbies can play a bigger role in bringing up the kids.
I am busy getting divorced, my kids are small, but young enough to have minds of their own and already they say that they dont want to go visit their dad. I wonder why ??? or may be i should not wonder at all as the answer is right in front of us.
Sometimes the dads just upset the routines of smooth running house holds
Single, independent and happy - most of us anyway! The only problem, sometimes a happy problem, is that we become too independent!
ReplyDeleteYeah well, sometiomes as men we can be a tad crappy. Unfortunately as men we do not think like women. we have one track minds. it may seem obvious to ladies that children need the ear of their fathers, or even at least just to spend qualioty time with them. My dad took one afternoon teaching me maths in grade 2 and I neded up among the top 4 in the national mathematics tournament 5 years later.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately most men miss this pont, instead we focus on looking for money for the family and do not actially spend time with the family. I have learnt in my short life that no matter how rich or wealthy you are, the day comes when as an old person you need your children and what they really remember is your relationship with them.
So, to the men out there, sort out your r/ship with the laaities (i think that is the spelling).
As for dealing with women, that is an all new ball game! Woman, just tell your man what you want, we are just not cut out to figure it out! Finshed and klaar! (again, i think that is the spelling)
-~ A learned guy